Ways of Thinking...

One of the thing I have always known but have really noticed over the past year..  How most men and women think differently about releationships. 

Women, we nurture, feed, think things out.. Most of us will have adjusted, thought out the pros and cons before making a final decision... 

Men, well they have 2 ways of thinking... First is what I like to call the "Y" theory, why should I do it, you will and if I ingore it, it isnt really happenng. The other way is more of a direct approach..  I have been burned so I am not going to never ever do it agian.  They do not let the opposite sex get emotionally close to them and do anything to stop it from happening.. 

Let me tell you either way is equally frustrating.... 

May, what a month

May is generally a busy month for me. Between birthday's, end of school year, the start of the busy season for my previous employment in the moving industry, and graduations.  This year was really no different my daughter Kylea arrived to visit on May 3rd her birthday. For the next week we ran arround and vegged. My youngest son Michael arrived on Sunday May 11th in the morning and Kylea left on the 11th in the afternoon.  He stayed for a week, agian we ran around and vegged.. Michael left on the 18th then on the 22nd my bestest friend from high school arrived, Debbie stayed for 10 days. Agian nonstop running around, and vegging. Unfortunetly Debbie had to leave a few days early because of a sudden death in her family.  While Debbie was here we celebrated our birthdays as well. 

Now we are in June and things are slowing down, and guess what....  Everything is catching up with me, the past 4 days I have had earaches, and have been congested for part of it.  But oh well, everyone had fun and I got to visit with people I missed very much..