Happy Monday!!!! I would like to be all.... It's Monday, I don't wanna go to work. The weekend wasn't long enough... BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. But I'm not, and it has nothing to do with the fact I am still looking for work. I am normally pretty happy in the morning, it doesn't matter what day of the week it is. Some days are happier than others naturally and some are happier based on my amount and type of caffeine I have. Today was just a good morning naturally I got up, ran my friend to work, came back got coffee, took a shower, made a couple of calls, . It's been a productive 2 hours I think. Hopefully the rest of the day can be productive. I have a 1000 word paper to write, do look at a rental. Yes, not only am I jobless, I will be homeless in the matter of two weeks if I don't find either one soon.
I also had a productive weekend... looked at rentals, and got to spend a little while with two people I became friends with when I was 16. That is one positive thing I can say about Facebook. We hadn't all gotten together and chatted in almost 30 years and thanks to Facebook, we have been able to reconnect. It is funny how you can not speak to someone in a very long time and after an hour of catching up it's like you never spent time apart. I have a theory about friends there are 4 types, there are the acquaintances, you know them and are glad you do but you don't necessarily spend much time with them. You have Daily Friends, friends that are part of your daily life you know the ones that you work with, have happy hour with, and just hang out with. Then there are the friends that are social only friends. You know the ones that you only see when you go out somewhere, whether that is to an event big or small. Finally you have the best ones of all, the ones that you meet they are all of the above and you can not imagine your life without them. You can speak every day or 29 years later and it's like you just talked to them the day before. I call those Life Friends. I have been very fortunate that I have a small handful of those friends. There are a few like these two that we met in high school when we were all 16, and there are a couple that I have met along my path in life. Now a few of my Life friends are also daily and social friends. I can't imagine not talking to or spending time with them on a regular basis. A couple of years ago, I decided I needed to take care of my mental health and part of taking care of that meant I evaluated my friendships. Evaluating them, included admitting that some of them were creating a negative status in my my life and causing stress on my health. I tried to just back away from social events that involved the negative people, but unfortunately that didn't work. Next I just stopped doing things I loved to do like scrapbooking, going to happy hour, girls night out, and home parties such as Pampered Chef. That helped, but the negative people always found a way to involve themselves in my life. I even deactivated my facebook page. The problem with that was, I was going to loose contact with some family and friends that were not in my area that I didn't want to loose again. Solution became start a new page and only allow those people have access to it. It has been a little over a year, and that is working great. I still get to chat with my cousins, aunts, uncles, and life friends. My final step was to move away from all those negative nelly's. Now I did not move to Texas just for that reason. But it truly let me know who are those who honestly care about my well being. I won't say its easy to be here away from everything in my little Phoenix world, it is very hard. The hardest part is being away from my children. WAIT, wait.. I have to clarify this.. My children are adults themselves. Well physically, but all three of them have jobs, friends, and lives on their own. So while we are important to each other, I do not need to take care of them daily anymore.
Alright then, I should stop typing... I know no one is reading this (except my daughter) I guess that is why I can go on a rant like this and not worry about it...
Smiles,
Debbee